Bar Sluts (men who try to get laid by going to the bar)

stop the insainity!

from JoeUser Forums
This article is going to be vastly different from everything else I've published....

Sunday evening, my friend finished her final piano recital so she could graduate here in the next couple weeks. When it was finished we decided gather a few friends to head to a bar on our college campus to celebrate by having a few drinks....

This sounds like it's all in good fun, right?

WRONG!

Many of our friends were at the bar, but particularly, there were these two gentlemen there that evening, one I knew from previous engagements at this particular bar...I had no clue about the other one. Well, the night just took a downward progression from here. Being a fun group of happy liquored people, we went around the bar and greeted all of our friends (including these two guys) with high fives and hugs. The 2 guys ended up buying all of us drinks..no big deal right? Well, for some reason they thought we were hitting on them, but yet we gestured all of our other friends in the same manner (hugs and high fives..).

Anyways, the one guy that I mentioned above persistantly tried to convince me to dump my boyfriend of three happy long years to go back to his place....um...yeah right buddy.

I felt extremely guilty about the whole situation so I told my boyfriend....he said that the guy was way out of line. then he said "I bought a drink for my friend yesterday, and that certainly did not mean I wanted to sleep with him."

I don't think I was leading anybody on, I mean, people buy drinks for people all the time, right?
Why do some people have to be such bar sluts?? Can't a couple of girls just go out and have some fun without getting hit on by idiots??
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
Well I can say from my point of view, that if I am in a bar and a woman starts talking to me and we're getting along fine, then yeah I am going to ask her out. Even if she's amiable with everyone and such, if I like her I don't pass up the chance! Though once told 'no' or 'I have a boyfriend' I stop and go back to non flirt mode.... though really with me you don't much have to be hitting on me for me to flirt...

My guess is though, that men will go to the bar to get laid because liquered up women can a lot of times just like men make the wrong decisions. Possibly they go there just to find one willing to 'do it' for the night.....

I really can't guess more than that though, because as crazy as my life has been I've never been a one night stand type guy.....
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
I hate this! This is why I never accept drinks from anyone who is not a good friend. The whole 'I bought you a drink, therefore you should sleep with me' equation has never made any sense to me.

Basically some people want to get laid whenever and where ever they can. They are sleazes and need to be ignored (or castrated!)
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Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
M post you seem like a good guy...that guy just would not quit and it was getting obnoxious. I think I'm going to avoid going back to that particular bar unless my boyfriend is around.


Floozie--i totally agree with you! I mean, does "hey this round is on me" automatically translate into let's get naked? Some people are just sooo twisted.
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top
I've heard thousands of horror stories from both sides of the fence. Both men and women can be rude and offensive in bars - especially when overly intoxicated. I've actually had women ask me how much money I make and the type of car I drive before they even know my name! I would add Corporate Whores to Bar Sluts as appropriate names for ALL dirtbags that give bars a bad name.
Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
Well, that's what pepper spray is for...heh....but, you're gonna have to expect this from some people, don't feel guilty if you turn someone down....but if they keep hitting on you get someone to help you "convince" them to back off.

~Zoo
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
Good point Zoo! I think that's why I'm going to bring my Boyfriend if I end up going to that bar again.