Losing a Sister

Does not seem fair :(

from WinCustomize Forums

Well it seems like there has been a lot of bad news being shared lately and I have more to share. My younger sister has been battling stage 4 cervical cancer for a few months now. I just got word from my father today that her kidneys have shut down and she only has a few days at best to live. 42 years old is much to young to die but I guess death knows no age.

For those who believe in it I would appreciate your prayers. 

Thank you all

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Reply #1 from WinCustomize Forums Top

I'm very sorry to hear it. I will pray for your sister. My sympathies to you and your family.

Reply #2 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Damn JC...I'm really sorry to hear this. :( I just hope she isn't suffering. v_v

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Reply #3 from WinCustomize Forums Top

My heart goes out to you my friend. My prayers and thoughts to you and your family. God bless. 

Reply #4 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Ken, I'm terribly saddened by this. You know my prayers go for your sister and her family. Such a young woman....this is a tragedy, indeed.

Hold onto the love, Ken. It never dies. Hold onto the memories and if you can, be present to give your sister and her family your love...

You're all in my thoughts and prayers, bud. I echo WG's hope regarding pain or discomfort.

Reply #5 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Very sad news. Your sister, you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Reply #6 from WinCustomize Forums Top

You and your sister are in my thoughts and prayers.

Reply #7 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Sorry to hear this........... I know how it feels. :(

 

Reply #8 from WinCustomize Forums Top

My thoughts for your sister JC.

Reply #9 from WinCustomize Forums Top

I am sorry to hear this, JC. I wish you and your family all the best in the days to come.

Reply #10 from WinCustomize Forums Top

So very sorry Ken my prayers are with you and your sister.

Reply #11 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Very sad news.  I'm sorry JuniorCrooks.  Take care of yourself and yours.  My thoughts are with you.

Reply #12 from WinCustomize Forums Top

You are both in my prayers.

Reply #13 from WinCustomize Forums Top
You have my sympathies, Juniorcrooks.
Reply #14 from WinCustomize Forums Top
With deepest sympathy, I am sorry to hear of your loss. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Reply #15 from WinCustomize Forums Top

You and your family have my deepest condolences and are in my prayers and thoughts. :'(

Reply #16 from WinCustomize Forums Top

All of you are very kind. Thanks to all who have wrote here. I am a little emotional right now. When you go through something like this you do a lot of reflecting. You begin to think of how trivial some things are and the importance of others.

For many life means little. People are killed over a few dollars. I recently seen a wallpaper on flickr of a man shooting a person at the edge of a cliff and how others commented on how cool the wallpaper was. It was a vector wallpaper and many would shrug it off as art but not me. It depicts something real and the reality it depicts is hate and that life can be disposed of like a piece of trash.

You may ask what this has to do with my sister dying of cancer. I guess directly it has nothing do do with it. Cumulatively it has caused me to reflect about how fragile life is. There are no guarantees about how long we have on this Earth. That is why it is important to live life in such a way so there will be no regrets or at least as little as possible. When you have made as many mistakes as I have it is hard to not have some regrets. The past is the past though and today is a new day God has given us.

Sorry for my rambling, like I said I am a little emotional right now.

Reply #17 from WinCustomize Forums Top

It makes me sad to hear about that. My thoughts are with you my friend.

Reply #18 from WinCustomize Forums Top

I hope your sister is at peace and imparts that to all of you around her...... just so unfair... too young......  :-|   so sorry JC....

Reply #19 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Everyone makes those mistakes, Ken. Everyone. Not surprising that you'd react that way to that ugly wall... it's commendable.

Take it slow, my friend. This pain is going to decrease in severity and frequency... over time. Allow yourself to grieve as you feel you must, and not as you think others expect or allow.

People will understand and think no less of you. Believe me.

Reply #20 from WinCustomize Forums Top

JC I am deeply sorry to hear about your sister. My prayers go out to each and ever family member.

words can't express it enough, so I will give you all Hugs..   stay strong.

Reply #21 from WinCustomize Forums Top

I am sorry about this news, I bring you all my sympathy even if I know that all these attentions cannot replace the person who left you.

Reply #22 from WinCustomize Forums Top

I offer my prayers and thoughts to you and your family.

Reply #23 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Junior, I hate to hear it, man. I lost a sister a while back from pancreatic cancer. I hope someday we find cures for these illnesses, seems technologically we should be there soon.

 

I will definitely put you on the prayer list at church, and my personal prayer list too. God bless you and your family. He will see you through this.

Reply #24 from WinCustomize Forums Top

I really appreciate all of your support everyone. I have not been a member here all that long so the response has surprised me a little. I have read comments of how special this site and its members are and now I have felt it. I never want to leave this place.

Again thank you all. I have not thanked you individually but I have read every comment and they all mean a lot.

Reply #25 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Jim I hope someday there will be a cure for many cancers. This makes me want to do something to raise money for research. Walking across Canada has been done but maybe I could do it backwards ;)