Why should you even care?

What anyone else thinks about anything whatever is of no concern. They will all presently be dead anyway. As will you.

Well as at least 45% of the board knows by now, I am a black man   . Ok now moving on to the point of this, I am a black guy who is naturally attracted to women of Asian decent (Japanese, Chinese, and so on), and people seem to look at me strangely when they find out. Usually one of the first things I get is; "Why you know they are not better in bed then a white or black women right?"Then I have to go into this whole discussion on how I didn't say a thing about sex, or could care if it was better or not. Just how I simply find them more naturally beautiful and appealing then other women. Ultimately it ends up with me being called weird, or strange for actually having a preference for women that are not black or white.

 

Seriously and it isn't just men its black and white women to who I get the same exact responses and expressions from when they find out and listen to me try to explain it to them. Out of everyone I have had the discussion with; only three people understood where I was coming from. One understood why, one agreed with me on my reason why, and the other..well she is from china and was more surprised and just said I was different from other black guys she met.

 

SoI ask what is so hard to understand and accept about a black guy that likes Asian women?

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There's nothing hard to understand or accept. Some people just exaggerate it. Quite frankly I'm partial to Eastern European (especially Russian/Ukrainian) women; some people probably think "oh that's so wierd", especially if you consider that I qualify as "Hispanic Other" (I'm part Portuguese). Though I do agree, Asian women are quite beautiful and appealing .

What a depressing view.

EDIT: stupid quotes. I bolded my response. 

"I don't grin like a moron, I grin like a sociopath."

Sensitive no, but I do find the having to go through the same crap over and over annoying really.

Speaking as a man myself, all women in general are attractive regardless of whether they are Asian or anything else. People that have a problem with you being "a black guy that likes Asian women" probably have a problem with drinking.

That might be true on a strictly objective basis. But when it comes to things like attraction there is no room for objectiveness since it's strictly a subjective matter.

I for one find most black women not very attractive whereas I'm pretty much drawn to asian, oriental, european and light skinned hispanic women. Do I say they are overall less attractive? No. But to ME they ARE. Not because I'm a racist but because of my taste in women.

My neighbour (female) for example is EXCLUSIVELY drawn to black men...

Another girl I know prefers spanish or italian guys.

And since we're talking about racism and prejudice: There is a pretty wide spread prejudice around here that women who prefer black men only do so because they wrongly believe that they have longer schlongs than white men and/or are better in bed generally.

Also that eastern european girls are easier to get, better in bed (more submissive) but in general just out to strip you of your money.

And that all asian wifes of european men are bought out of a catalogue.

Btw, funnily enough I was thinking not long ago about how men and women are differently drawn to women and men of other origins, and although I have no statistical backup for my theory I came to think that men might find women of some origins more attractive than of others but they don't usually take that as a means of selection concerning potential partners whereas women do that more often. And especially the majority of black women seems to be attracted exclusively to black men.

But like I said: No idea if that's empiricly correct.

@Star Adder- I lol'd at the "Asian wives of European men are bought out of a catalogue" part.

"I don't grin like a moron, I grin like a sociopath."

You'd be surprised about in how many cases this assessment is actually right on the spot. In most cases it's either thai or philipine women though. Japanese or chinese women are not so easy to come by, if you'll excuse my choice of words.

Personally, of asian women I favor japanese and Hong Kong chinese women. Continental chinese women are usually not nearly as beautiful as Hong Kong's women.

I am surprised this topic is not understood well by so many people? It is often the case that we humans find attributes foreign to our own immediate group attractive, this is basically because genetic diversity is beneficial. Cultural concepts may make many people cringe at such attractions, but remove those cultural concepts and you may find such an attraction hidden underneath!

Acceptance is a funny thing, but contention is intrigue from fear.  Humans fear.  It's what we do.

People who seek interracial relations are just drawn to varietal differences.  That is scary to most.

Does that meant he very same people who are scared by that would approve if I'd screw my sis?!

Who cares if you are black or not.  And who cares if you like asian chicks or not.  And why the fuck do you care what they say to you?

The End.

WOW this is definitely the most stupid reply I've ever ran into here....  well, presumably the people who responded from #1-#35 do care. But if you don't why even bother to make a reply - you could talk to your own hand instead

In a few hundred years, we will all be of mixed races, finally being one race, THE HUMAN RACE.

We are already one race, the human race

If someone doesn't like who you choose as a partner, then they are the ones with the problem.

For me a girl is a girl - they are all made the same way As long as we get on well I don't care what shade of blue she is...

I do have this thing about Klingon women though

Had a girlfriend do the Andorian blue alien for me. Man, we made a mess. I would be like Kirk, spreading my seed across the galaxy.

Too! Imagine Lursa & Bethor taking control and ....<cencored>

Maiden  I love you to man.  Let's just have a giant love fest.  Why bother even thinking about this?

Also at no point did I mean to offend you.

The End

You can keep your Andorians as long as I get my Asari.

I think the only weird thing is, is that you're going around telling everyone what type of people you're attracted to.  So what - you meet a new friend "How are you doing?  Oh, guess what type of women I'm attracted to?" 

Anyway, this reminds me of the scene in "I Think I Love My Wife" where Chris Rock's character talks about liking Asian porn, or something like that. 

This is the Internet.  Nobody here is a real person.

And myfist, did you actually get your girlfriend to paint herself blue or something like that, or am I misunderstanding your statement?

Yup. Blue body paint on a hottie. Needed new sheets and the blue was on me for a week. 

I did not get her too. She surprised me. New I likey likey!

Son of a bitch!  You're one lucky bastard you are.

Synn, my answer is that people are boring. People create problems out of thin air just so they'll have something to talk about with you.

I find it interesting that (to you) all females are 'girls', except for Klingon 'women'.

Do you prefer girls, or women? And, on what terms?

It seems that girls are all shades of blue, but what color are Klingon women? They certainly are not a shade of blue...

It seems, by your statement, that you like to 'get it on' with little girls (as in a very young nubile), but you would really prefer the Klingon dominatrix type for a long term relationship.

Such conflicting emotions and desires, displayed in so short a post.

What was it that Yoda said? It was something about focus, and 'do, or do not - there is no try'.