Well as at least 45% of the board knows by now, I am a black man   . Ok now moving on to the point of this, I am a black guy who is naturally attracted to women of Asian decent (Japanese, Chinese, and so on), and people seem to look at me strangely when they find out. Usually one of the first things I get is; "Why you know they are not better in bed then a white or black women right?"Then I have to go into this whole discussion on how I didn't say a thing about sex, or could care if it was better or not. Just how I simply find them more naturally beautiful and appealing then other women. Ultimately it ends up with me being called weird, or strange for actually having a preference for women that are not black or white.

Seriously and it isn't just men its black and white women to who I get the same exact responses and expressions from when they find out and listen to me try to explain it to them. Out of everyone I have had the discussion with; only three people understood where I was coming from. One understood why, one agreed with me on my reason why, and the other..well she is from china and was more surprised and just said I was different from other black guys she met.

SoI ask what is so hard to understand and accept about a black guy that likes Asian women?