Folks, what it all boils down to is............do what you want to.
Some folks have walked away from the community, others take a break from the community for awhile, lots of others in the community just smile and treat each day as a new day, which it is, and don't let the small stuff bother them.
I too am retired so I have a lot of time to just sit around and click through the forums or IRC, if you want to see a place that's dead check out the IRC channels for SD and WC. It has it peaks and valleys as I said in my other reply.
The WC community and it's forum will always be what the members of the community want it to be, all it takes is some effort.