Help a new modder out, linking tiles to Goodie huts and Quests.

I have several tiles made.  I want to be able to link them in game to goodie huts and some as quests.  Brad's post covers the basics but leaves a ton of info out.  I am looking for a DETAILED walk through for an XML noob on how to link a tile to a hut, and how to link a tile to a quest. 

I tried following Brad's guide earlier, and though I did so to the T, but it borked my installation and had to reinstall.  Please help, I have some nice tiles made, I just need to get them in the game now.