Increasing Number Of Parents Opting To Have Children School-Homed

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WASHINGTON—According to a report released Monday by the U.S. Department of Education, an increasing number of American parents are choosing to have their children raised at school rather than at home.

Deputy Education Secretary Anthony W. Miller said that many parents who school-home find U.S. households to be frightening, overwhelming environments for their children, and feel that they are just not conducive to producing well-rounded members of society.

Thousands of mothers and fathers polled in the study also believe that those running American homes cannot be trusted to keep their kids safe.

"Every year more parents are finding that their homes are not equipped to instill the right values in their children," Miller said. "When it comes to important life skills such as proper nutrition, safe sex, and even basic socialization, a growing number of mothers and fathers think it's better to rely on educators to guide and nurture their kids."

"And really, who can blame them?" Miller continued. "American homes have let down our nation's youth time and again in almost every imaginable respect."

According to the report, children raised at home were less likely to receive individual adult attention, and were often subjected to ineffective and wildly inconsistent disciplinary measures. The study also found that many parents expressed concerns that, when at home, their children were being teased and bullied by those older than themselves.

In addition to providing better supervision and overall direction, school-homing has become popular among mothers and fathers who just want to be less involved in the day-to-day lives of their children.

"Parents are finding creative ways to make this increasingly common child-rearing track work," Miller said. "Whether it's over-relying on after-school programs and extracurricular activities, or simply gross neglect,† school-homing is becoming a widely accepted method of bringing children up."

Despite the trend's growing popularity, Miller said that school programs are often jeopardized or terminated because shortsighted individuals vote against tax increases intended to boost educational spending.

"The terrifying reality we're facing is that the worst-equipped people you could possibly imagine may actually be forced to take care of their children," Miller said.

Parents who have decided to school-home their children have echoed many of Miller's concerns. Most said that an alarming number of legal guardians such as themselves lack the most basic common sense required to give children the type of instruction they need during crucial developmental years.

"It's really a matter of who has more experience in dealing with my child," Cincinnati- resident Kevin Dufrense said of his decision to have his 10-year-old son Jake, who suffers from ADHD and dyslexia, school-homed. "These teachers are dealing with upwards of 40 students in their classrooms at a time, so obviously they know a lot more about children than someone like me, who only has one son and doesn't know where he is half the time anyway."

"Simply put, it's not the job of parents to raise these kids," Dufrense added.

Though school-homing has proven to be an ideal solution for millions of uninvolved parents, increasingly overburdened public schools have recently led to a steady upswing in the number of students being prison-homed.

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Too..much..reading.....must..rest..brain.;P

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Nevermind........:moo:

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Seems to me a sterilisation programme is needed here.... people who don't want to raise (their own) kids should never be able to have them... period.

And where do these school-homed children learn about love... the kind of love one receives from a mother, father, brother, sister, aunt, uncle or cousin???   While they may receive good educations, etc, they will be lacking vital ingredients to growth and development.  Even if parents make mistakes, generally, it is better for a child to grow and learn with mistakes accompanied by love than institutional mistakes without love.

I also think this highly industrialised, dollar driven world has been a tragedy for kids, with millions of kids going home to empty house because dad's income isn't enough and mum is at work 'til 7.00pm or later to help pay the friggin' mortgage, etc.  When my sister and I were kids, my mother was always at home when we got in from school, and we'd get a bit of love, a bit of discipline and a sensible snack to tide us over 'til dinner... oh yeah, and we'd have to do a few chores before we could go off the play.  Don't see that too often these days, with millions of kids having to fend for themselves and throwing some fat saturated 'treat' in the microwave before they sit on their ballooning arse in front of the TV and/or computer to play... no chores, no exrecise.

Yup, family values/traditions have gonme down the shitter, sacrificed in pursuit of the almighy dollar and material possession... and we wonder why juvenile crime is constantly on the rise, and the severity of their crimes increasing.

"Simply put, it's not the job of parents to raise these kids," Dufrense added.
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Dufrense, you need your nuts cut off... to ensure you bring no more unwanted kids into the world.  Dunno how you'd take a meat cleaver to a similarly thinking woman... but yeah, no more kids for her, either.

my tuppence worth. >:( :banhammer: :thumbsdown: XO :banhammer: :banhammer:

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Bit early for April One...but looks like you got a few already.

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Bit early for April One...but looks like you got a few already.
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An April Fool's gag???   8C :blush:   The bastard... the bastard!!!!  :rofl:

Still, too many kids these days are neglected by under-committed parents

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Hey, I was raised by sheep and I didn't turn out so baaaaaaaaaaaad.

:grin:

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"These teachers are dealing with upwards of 40 students in their classrooms at a time, so obviously they know a lot more about children than someone like me, who only has one son and doesn't know where he is half the time anyway."

Well the above says a lot of the problem doesn't it. Many parents don't know where their children are. My Mother and Father never had a problem knowing where I was and if I did try to pull something off they always seemed to find out. Than i would get the smack on the butt. In this world now if you get caught giving a little smack it's called abuse. The word abuse should really be redefined and a couple smacks in the butt for respect shouldn't be part of it. I guess having 7 grandchildren has opened my eyes as they are allowed to do things I was never allowed to do and frankly I don't agree with a lot they can get away with but don't say anything about it. I could go on but with end with this. Cell phones for kids today are much more important than school and many things. I have seen kids as young as 10 years using a cell phone. When a child enters high school let them have a phone but have a phone that allows them 30 minutes a month to talk, text or whatever. After the 30 minutes the phone shuts off till the 1st of the next month.

Thanks for letting me vent about another b--s--- article that people find time to write that don't have a clue about the real world.

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Er...Dave......think April 1....it's a send-up aka parody....;)

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Quoting Jafo, reply 9
Er...Dave......think April 1....it's a send-up aka parody....
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Yes.

Touchy subject for me when people say shit and have no idea what the hell is really going on. Guess you read into that already.

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I could tell right away that it was a gag. :D

There is, however, a lot of tongue-in-cheek humor here, and a lot of truth behind it, too. Sadly, many "parents," so called, either don't care or don't have a clue.

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Er...Dave......think April 1....it's a send-up aka parody....
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Parody or not, it'll still upset folks who happen to care that many modern kids are neglected and are leading loveless lives... because it's a lot closer to the truth than perhaps we care to admit.

 

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Caveat Emptor.

If someone is upset by this, he'll probably will weep day and night about "The chicken who crossed the road." and how that supposedly puts animal cruelty in a humorous light. Really?

 

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If someone is upset by this, he'll probably will weep day and night about "The chicken who crossed the road."
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Actually, I did weep over the chicken who crossed the road.... cos mum refused to cook up roadkill and I missed out on chicken soup.

:rofl:

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So.....let me guess....thus started the "Legend of The Curried Cabbage" and "Why did the Curried Cabbage cross the Colon?

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So.....let me guess....thus started the "Legend of The Curried Cabbage" and "Why did the Curried Cabbage cross the Colon?
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Yeah, it was a bit like that... though people would get terribly cross if curried cabbage crossed my colon and rectum... er, wrecked 'em.

Oh, and the other thing that annoys me about this School-homed thing... it wasn't available when my son was 14 and a right royal pain in the arse.  It would have been the ideal solution and I wouldn't have pulled out so much of my hair. 

:-" ;)

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It would have been the ideal solution and I wouldn't have pulled out so much of my hair.
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same bloody here! or... here here. I had 2. ummmm.... prison - homing anyone?

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Quoting DrJBHL, reply 17

It would have been the ideal solution and I wouldn't have pulled out so much of my hair.
same bloody here! or... here here. I had 2. ummmm.... prison - homing anyone?
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Yeah, I had 2 also... boy and a girl, then mrs starkers brought along her bundle of jo...er, trouble.

Dunno about prison-homing, a padded cell and strait jacket should be freely available to parents without access, though.

I'm also thinking... prospective parents should not only be able to determine the sex of their babies, but also have them genetically enginneered to find a job at 5 and leave the nest after receiving 3 months pay.... two months if they can afford to rent more than a cardboard box and a blanket in an alley.  And by the time they're 10 they should be sending money home to mum and dad to repay their board and keep while they were still at home.

:-"

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I'm also thinking... prospective parents should not only be able to determine the sex of their babies, but also have them genetically enginneered to find a job at 5 and leave the nest after receiving 3 months pay.... two months if they can afford to rent more than a cardboard box and a blanket in an alley. And by the time they're 10 they should be sending money home to mum and dad to repay their board and keep while they were still at home.
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Now we're talking. I was thinking of starting out more like 6. That way at least they will be able to buy their own cell phone.

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Now we're talking. I was thinking of starting out more like 6. That way at least they will be able to buy their own cell phone.
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Buying his/her own mobile phone at 6 be buggered... by 6, any genetically engineered kid o' mine would have to own his/her own mobile phone company, a rugby league team, a fleet of luxury cars, a soccer team and a 151 bed bordello with a hooker in every room..... and by the time he/she is 7 I'll be a milti-millionaire.

:-"