i feel i should come back on my original post.
the overly long answer -
i was a beta player and also affected by the connection problems at launch.
as of beta 3 i've had a great time playing this game, and i'm of the temperment where i can forgive 'little' things knowing who SD are and that the game will be supported for some time to come.
so, that said, this weeks been the first time where've actually been able to get back to enjoying what i did at the begining of the year and so i'm v.happy.
yes, it's only really custom games that are playable. though i seem to be having more luck than others here as mine have all been 3v3 with about a 60% completion rate (that is everyone making it to the end of the game, if that sounds low then look up ragequit)
and yes, there's a patch due today (latest on that is a "should be" from Kryo) so that may fix a load of things but potentially break things too, so wait and see on that.
point being that you should definately come back and give it another bash if you've already paid for the game, things have become a lot better then at launch, if not quite yet reaching the full potential of the game.
MrL