My favorite waste of time

Sleeping In

About once a week I spend the night at my boyfriend's house. And when I do we tend to sleep in, hang out, and relax. Maybe work on his car or mine. Walk the dogs, etc. I spend a lot of time there. He's my boyfriend. I love him. My bunny also lives there after a landlord problem a couple of months ago. But sometimes I think its not always the best use of my time. We've been dating for 10 months now and I see him every day usually. We tend to spend more and more time together, which is wonderful. But I get less and less done.

We study together somtimes, and thats good. Or cook, or whatever. But I think that sometimes I might be more effecient if I only saw him say five times a week instead of seven. I don't know. Its important to get stuff done like studying, but its also important to spend time relaxing with the people I care about. I think next week I will suggest that we study before we relax. And maybe we can alternate places. Like he can come to my apartment a little more often, and I will come there less. I just want to be more prepared when monday comes.
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Reply #1 Top
saw him say five times a week instead of seven


its important to not neglect your life and your "self" when u are in a relationship. And sometimes absence really does make the heart grow fonder! Enjoy your life and your love life!!
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I like this absense makes the heart grow fonder idea. Hmm.... planning on studying with him the next two days, but I shall refuse to see him on friday. Now to see if I'm actually productive on those days!