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She works next door, and I saw her first riding her horse out in the fields beside the horse barn. I was up (in like 20 degree temps) trying to fix our barn roof. I'm a notorious klutz.. but one that's at least somewhat lucky because I normally don't hurt myself. I fell off the roof. This was how we met. She apparently saw my 20 foot plunge that showed my lack of any grace, and came over to help. After she learned that I was Ok other than my ego, we got to talking etc.... So eventually after talking a while she went her own way, and I mine.
A few days later I'm out working on the same roof. No, I don't fall off this time.. instead this time I fall THROUGH the roof. I apparently found one of the weak spots of the roof, and it decided it didn't want to carry my weight. Luckly, I fell into the hay pile we have in the upper floor of the barn, and sustained no injury. I come clomping down the ladder, and who do I again see at the door to the barn but the lovely neighbor. After placing some light-hearted bomb threats against my own barn, I get up the nerve and ask her out. Luck was with me and she aggrees, as long as I promised not to fall through the roof again...
We went out on about 5 dates total, and got to know each other pretty well, and I've hung out with her a lot next door, and even got to ride her horse (which is a special honor, because she's very picky with the horse and who is allowed to ride it.. and no, I didn't fall off, or through the horse!) So after a while we're sitting talking and she admits to having some deep feelings for me. I'm thrilled at hearing this because I'd been feeling the same thing and told her just so. Then the crazyness sticks its head in... She then goes on to say how she wants to stop seeing me because she's worried I'll cheat on her... I'll admit at this point I was baffled, and asked if she has had a previous boyfriend who had cheated or such... she didn't have any of that history... so I kept trying to ask and figure out what led her to believe I'd do such a thing... I've yet to figure that ponderous question out yet.... but after talking enough we were able to resolve that problem and continue on with things....
We hang out a good bit more, and are getting along great.. then blamo, nother problem comes... I'm suddenly not relationship material. I'm totally flabergasted. I havn't a clue where it came from, or what I may have done to warrant it. Needless to say I've been doing a lot of thinking on it and I can't figure it out. I've been thinking the last few weeks of how great it would be to have a relationship with her, and have even been hinting at such to her.
Talked to her earlier today, and she's still on that resolve. I believe I can quote this line, it has me totally confused... "I have feeling sfor you, that I can easily picture turning to love, yet I just don't think your relationship material" I say "Is it something I say or do that makes you think that?" "No"
That's the general gist of it... I'd gladly welcome any woman's opinion if you think you have any clue where this comes from...
I have some ideas of it myself, but they aren't good ones =/ I don't much want to have to think of those myself, but don't hold back.. be honest with me....
A few days later I'm out working on the same roof. No, I don't fall off this time.. instead this time I fall THROUGH the roof. I apparently found one of the weak spots of the roof, and it decided it didn't want to carry my weight. Luckly, I fell into the hay pile we have in the upper floor of the barn, and sustained no injury. I come clomping down the ladder, and who do I again see at the door to the barn but the lovely neighbor. After placing some light-hearted bomb threats against my own barn, I get up the nerve and ask her out. Luck was with me and she aggrees, as long as I promised not to fall through the roof again...
We went out on about 5 dates total, and got to know each other pretty well, and I've hung out with her a lot next door, and even got to ride her horse (which is a special honor, because she's very picky with the horse and who is allowed to ride it.. and no, I didn't fall off, or through the horse!) So after a while we're sitting talking and she admits to having some deep feelings for me. I'm thrilled at hearing this because I'd been feeling the same thing and told her just so. Then the crazyness sticks its head in... She then goes on to say how she wants to stop seeing me because she's worried I'll cheat on her... I'll admit at this point I was baffled, and asked if she has had a previous boyfriend who had cheated or such... she didn't have any of that history... so I kept trying to ask and figure out what led her to believe I'd do such a thing... I've yet to figure that ponderous question out yet.... but after talking enough we were able to resolve that problem and continue on with things....
We hang out a good bit more, and are getting along great.. then blamo, nother problem comes... I'm suddenly not relationship material. I'm totally flabergasted. I havn't a clue where it came from, or what I may have done to warrant it. Needless to say I've been doing a lot of thinking on it and I can't figure it out. I've been thinking the last few weeks of how great it would be to have a relationship with her, and have even been hinting at such to her.
Talked to her earlier today, and she's still on that resolve. I believe I can quote this line, it has me totally confused... "I have feeling sfor you, that I can easily picture turning to love, yet I just don't think your relationship material" I say "Is it something I say or do that makes you think that?" "No"
That's the general gist of it... I'd gladly welcome any woman's opinion if you think you have any clue where this comes from...
I have some ideas of it myself, but they aren't good ones =/ I don't much want to have to think of those myself, but don't hold back.. be honest with me....
