Multiplayey Stats Not Updating

Ive played in and Won 3 pantheon games however my multiplayer stats have not updated.  Also after 8 hours trying to get games only having only 3 i know what to look for in a duff game.  in the connection info box if there is someone who is unable to connect to any of the people present then he will stop the game from launching,  the only solution is to quit and restart searching for a new game or wait for the guy to drop.