i need advice on this(easy question)

from JoeUser Forums
hi to you all
so there is this girl i like.2 months ago one day we saw eachother in the college(both from different departments) and i finally got her telephone number that day.after 1 hour she texted me that she would like to go to the town center with me.

the next day, when we met up in the town center it was all good.to sum it up,it had everything what you call a "succesful date"

5 days later i texted her if she would like to go the cinema with me in the weekend and after 2 days she texted me that she has bf and it would be right for her to go to the cinema with me.the next day i saw her , told her that it would bot be much better
if she said she had a bf already and she replied that we could still hangout if i want

so you might say,"it has been 2 months,whats the hell with you man?" but somehow i cant resist the temptation.i spent time with other girls through that time but i still search for hints&lead ons from her.
if we see eachother in the college she acts nicely towards me but she didnt make any moves to date with me,either

what do you think i should do now ?do you think it would be clingy for me to ask her out again ?
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top

as long as she has a boyfriend, you're not doing yourself any favors by pursuing her.  Leave it be, and tell her to call you if she ever becomes singlefied... in the meantime, get youreslf busy with someone else... you're not giving any other women a fair shot because this woman has your head all spun around...


walk away... if she's all into you the way you're into her, she'll become single and follow...

Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
Indeed Michael said it best... dont worry about her... shes got a man... though they may not be too exclusive because of the "dates" nonetheless... leave it be.. if she likes what she see she will be on your coat tails... but also... I would ask her on another date as well you know just as friends... nothing more... couldnt hurt... might even reinforce what you have and she might start to like you even more.

Thomas
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Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
Yeah, what Imajinit said.

Leave the door open. Stay in touch. But don't turn yourself into some needy, lovesick puppy that starts her "stalker" bell ringing. And don't ask her out again unless she gives you some definite sign she wants your advances. For all you know you were just a pawn in some devious rift she was playing on her boyfriend.

It's trite but true that there are plenty more fish in the sea. Find one who's mouth waters at your dangling worm.
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top

Find one who's mouth waters at your dangling worm.


cause that's what every man really needs


 

Reply #5 from JoeUser Forums Top
Walk away ..don't look back.



MJ trust you to pick up on that

Jess
Reply #6 from JoeUser Forums Top
At this juncture you are basically the "Emergency Cock", she has all the bennies of having you as a "friend" and keeps you on standby for when the other bf pisses her off. Cut sling load and roll away from this one. Don't ket anyone use you as their emotional tampon and get none of good bits in return.