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Grammar nazis, do you really believe the map is the territory?

Grammar nazis, do you really believe the map is the territory?

And don't you think this n-word should be less common so we fear it rightly?

I don't have math for it, but I know that both my reading and posting on these forums have been on steady upward curves. One of the things that increased my interest in posting was the regular "grammar nazi" talk, and that's in no small part because I'm head of a single income household and I work as an editor and writer on the periphery of IT Land.

So, for any of you who have declared or discretely held "grammar nazi" sympathies, please hold forth on your notions of standards, community, and efficiency.

I'm particularly curious about a few folks who appear to have abandoned "consistent" responses to formal writing errors. If you've noticed that you no longer take every opportunity to correct a post on this forum, why is this so? Have you simply become exhausted by the overwhelming barrage of "bad" English available today, or have you started "picking your battles?" If the latter is at least half true, tell us about your choice criteria, please.
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Reply #152 Top
So compared to my mother, the comparable house in the Boston suburbs is closer to ten times my income and my total tax burden is closer to 40% of my income. Believe me, the $8,000 a year my mom earned in 1965 far exceeds the $120,000 per year I earn today.

One of the biggest fallacies promulgated by the Republicans is that folks like me are "rich". It couldn't be further from the truth. Anyone in a similar situation to me is deluding themselves if they think they're anything but a peasant. I have far more in common with the minimum wage worker that the truly wealthy. If more people like me realized this truth it would be the immediate end to the Republican party. The problem is that the Republicans treat the people that most folks aspire to be extremely well.


I am in a very similar situation. The 1800 sq ft home one block away just sold for 1.1 million dollars (typical for silicon valley). It's only two blocks from the 101 freeway sound barrier (very busy freeway). Your 20% down payment is a mere 220 thousand dollars...When you look at pricing like this, a six figure salary puts you right back in the wage slave camp. It's true you can take care of all the other worldly needs, but that is some expensive housing.

My only quibble, don't limit the anger over being "rich" to just the Republicans, the Democrats are just as bad. Both like to miss that being rich in a financial sense isn't about how much you are earning today, but how much are you worth today. Just like in GC II, your only value to the government is as a tax base...


Reply #153 Top
During my time ass a pencilpusher,,I quickly realised that most of the people in the top are just as interchangable as the men on the floor


I'm pretty sure there's a typo-pun here that might be the most "valuable" thing in the thread so far. If PB did "time ass" on purpose, well, he/she/it deserves money from Hollywood . Regardless, it's gotta make you thhink...
Reply #154 Top
My only quibble, don't limit the anger over being "rich" to just the Republicans, the Democrats are just as bad.

Politicians are politicians, but I do hold a special distaste for the hypocrisy of the Republicans who on one hand begrudge the measly millions that it takes to help the less fortunate and on the other hand pass out billions to those that need it the least.

I know most Republicans despised Clinton, but all he did was get a hummer in the oval office. Bush outright lied to the American people to get them into a totally unnecessary (and extremely costly) war.

I truly believe that I’m a peasant and that you’re a peasant as well. It tends to put a lot of other things in perspective. It helps you avoid the trap of feeling superior to those less fortunate than yourself.
Reply #155 Top
We are somehow "entitled" to a worry-free and happy existence, by the simple act of being born into this world.


QO your remarks sum it up nicely. Thankfully there are those of us who do beleive you do actually have to WORK for a living to EARN a living.

Reply #156 Top
Peasants of the world unite!

As I tell my wife, one of the hardest lessons of life to learn is that it is not fair. It never will be, and you should never expect it to be fair. Once you've truly absorbed that lesson you are a lot happier and a lot better prepared to deal with the real world. In part, because you become a lot more willing to assume responsibility for making the best out of what you do get in life, and when, on those rare occasions, it is fair, you can treat it like the gift it is.

Which nicely ties together both the wage slave and FC's last post!




Reply #157 Top
I never said that life was fair or that the world owes anyone a living. After all I was brought up Lutheran and one of the prime tenants of the Bible that was drilled into my head was "he that would not work should not eat". I agree with this philosophy wholeheartedly. This is pretty much the same sentiment as FC mentioned. The only thing is I would amend it to be "he that would not work, and is able, should not eat". Again this is pretty much what FC said in he believes in a hand up and not a hand out. I believe in the same thing. Now if someone will simply explain to me how the 80 billion dollar no-bid contract to Halliburton doesn't represent a hand out then perhaps I'll change my opinion.
Reply #158 Top
You have a link or something to what your talking about Mumble? I assume this involves the war?
Reply #159 Top
Mumble, my last comment was meant to be an extension of what you said, not a contradiction. Forums are clumsy tools sometimes.

Edit:

Remembering that this is an open forum, I thought the addendum appropriate. I have seen enough comments by you to know you believe in the value of work and that you get it for lack of a better phase offhand.
Reply #160 Top
This thread has gone around the block a few times and then some. I am really surprised to see it still retains a bit of life. Just when one subject seems to be on the verge of death, a new subject jumps in and steals the heartbeat. I really did not intend to post in this thread again but I find it to alluring.

I see that Quietly Observing is no longer Quietly Observing and is actually Quiet Vocal.

I guess I should step back a little and tell you all, that I am very impressed with the thoughts, opinions, facts, and the words that are used to express them. I can not tell you how many times I have run for the dictionary for a quick review.

@G.W. I have to read most of your posts several times before I actually understand what your actually trying to say. I will be the first to say that there have been a few comments on your part that have left me in the deep, dark tunnel, begging for a light at the other end. That would be because you are far more intelligent than I.

@Mumble & Q.O. It appears to me that you both are very well educated and seem to have an awful lot in common, even though it would not appear so within your posts.

@Evil Eh. For very personal reasons I have to agree fully with your diagnoses of our medical practitioners.

Sometimes I feel very intimidated posting with the likes of all of you. I force myself to do so only because I enjoy the company and the conversation.

In the end, no matter who you are or what you have accomplished... You won't get out alive. That is life.
Reply #161 Top
FC, I spouted the 80 billon figure from memory. A little googling suggests that perhaps this figure is "only" 8 billion. If you want, you can google "no bid halliburton contract" (not exact order) and get over a half million hits. Most are interesting, although admittedly from sites that appear to have a left wing agenda.   

Purge, my work ethic comment was not really directed at you. It was really to indicate that I had more agreement with FC than my other post may have indicated.   

Quixen, no need to feel intimidated, you hold up your end of the conversation quite nicely.



I think the reasons I usually stay out of political conversations have been well documented. It's not that I don't care, it's that they can become so inflammatory and in the end change no ones opinion. The only real benefit that can happen is if every once in awhile an opposing opinion makes you take a good look and perhaps make you adjust your own opinion, even if only slightly.

None of these issues are as black and white as each side would like to believe. There are many strong points to be made on either side. At this point I’ve stirred the pot as much as I care to. Perhaps in another 1200 posts or so I’ll feel like contributing to another political debate.

One thing I do really wonder about is whether or not I had been successful in keeping my political opinions from coloring my previous posts. I guess the answer to that question is in how many folks realized that I was a “yellow dog” democrat. I’d at least like to think that I treated differing opinions with respect.   
Reply #162 Top
I am in a very similar situation. The 1800 sq ft home one block away just sold for 1.1 million dollars (typical for silicon valley). It's only two blocks from the 101 freeway sound barrier (very busy freeway). Your 20% down payment is a mere 220 thousand dollars


Sounds like you need to move... you can get a house that size with a full finished basement to boot for less than the down payment here in the midwest. At least we've escaped most of the ridiculous land value inflation seen on either coast in the past few decades. Just find a job that lets you telecommute and you're all set
Reply #163 Top
We are somehow "entitled" to a worry-free and happy existence, by the simple act of being born into this world.


QO your remarks sum it up nicely. Thankfully there are those of us who do beleive you do actually have to WORK for a living to EARN a living.


I am not delusional about life not being fair and I know full well that you have to work for a living. But this is only because that is the way our current capitalist system runs, and probably just about every other system as well. Not to invoke laughs but honestly, if you believe in God and Jesus, then yes, we are all here to be happy and enjoy what has been given to us. We are meant to share and love and help one another, thus proving that we are able to move onto the next level in existence, be it Heaven, or something more along the line of being allowed to enter into the universal community versus our Earthly one. But this will probably never happen...
Reply #164 Top
We are meant to share and love and help one another, thus proving that we are able to move onto the next level in existence

Where's the Evil? There is certainly a dichotomy between this statement and your forum persona. Maybe Good Sunshinebringer is really not all that far off.   
Reply #165 Top
Where's the Evil? There is certainly a dichotomy between this statement and your forum persona. Maybe Good Sunshinebringer is really not all that far off.


You liked that one huh? No Mumblefratz, my online persona is probably way off when it comes to my beliefs. I am very religious in the sense that I thoroughly believe in God, and Jesus (and feel they are both different entities)even though I refuse to step foot into a church for religious services. A wedding, a christening, yes... Sunday services, definitely not, no matter what religion. I was raised Catholic and traversed through a handful of religions on the way to 'enlightenment', ahem, and found all of the presentations to be lacking. What drove me away for good was a preacher, Baptist I believe, who one Sunday began by telling everyone in attendance that God wanted us to have a new TV, and a new truck, and a big twelve point rack hanging on the den wall...
I don't walk around preaching, almost always try to do the right thing in line with 'WWJD', and you know what that means, and mind my own. I feel very bad for the people both here, and abroad, who suffer daily and wish there was something I could do of substance that would help, but I can barely help myself. I've volunteered at a few kitchens and even tried to help out at a local animal shelter, which incidentally crushed me having to see those animals put to sleep... but still never felt like I was making a difference. Now I just go through life, sometimes ignorant of what goes on around me, sometimes noticing it all. I figure as long as I love my wife, and she loves me, then that's all that matters. I now wait for what some may call the "end of the world", if it is to happen, and hope that if it does, even if I am one of the sinners, maybe I will see real justice served.
Reply #166 Top
my online persona is probably way off when it comes to my beliefs.

Actually, your beliefs do show through, and yes, I did appreciate the sentiment.

I was brought up in a strict religious environment which is why I'm about as un-religious as you can get. Most Christians that I've known wear their Christianity like a fine new robe for all to admire. But if they didn't make such a fuss about being a Christian you'd never be able to tell it from their actions.

There have only been two people that I've met in my life that really made me stop and think that maybe there was something to this Christianity thing after all. One was the Lutheran minister who was my elementary school teacher and in whose honor I chose Martin Luther as my icon.

One thing that both of these folks had in common was that they “walked the walk” but didn’t feel the need to “talk the talk”. It’s too bad the converse of this is so much more common. The other noticeable characteristic was their ability to accept pretty much everyone, with all of their foibles, without making judgment.

Good thing this is an off topic thread, because the topic does wander somewhat far afield.   
Reply #167 Top
While there is nothing inherently wrong with "talking the talk", I do agree that too many do so without "walking the talk"' - a struggle that I fight every single day. Of course, with my past life as a construction worker, I have days where I find it difficult to even "talk the talk" properly, especially when driving through rush hour traffic. [/confession]
Reply #168 Top
Just find a job that lets you telecommute and you're all set


The crux of the problem.

How many big bandwidth sites are there outside the coasts that need a dedicated network engineer? I can do other stuff, but the pay cuts start to become severe and it ends up being a wash. So far the advantage of being in a market where a lot of people need my skills has been the bigger benefit so far...With a kid on the way, this may change. I might at least try for someplace like Seattle where you can still buy a house for half a mil

On the other subject, I grew up in a religious house as well. It's interesting that I had a lot of the same problems with organized religion as others. I couldn't stand that some of the loudest voices were those who didn't even try to walk the walk. I always thought trying to behave in the best fashion you are capable of and seeking to improve yourself (isn't that enough of a challenge for anyone?) was much more important than any particular religious belief and I thought that was frequently lost in the organized religions. I do have a list of other issues with org'ed religion unfortunately...It's definitely not for me.

Anyone taking bets on where this thread will next head? I know you could have won some money off me on it....

Reply #169 Top
Anyone taking bets on where this thread will next head? I know you could have won some money off me on it....


How about this way...
Last night TLC had a show on called Strange UFO Tales, or something along those lines. Anyway, it was like the top ten of absurd alien conspiracy shows, starting out with the more 'acceptable' theories and then going through more and more ridiculous theories until arriving at the most absurd and outlandish one of all, which would be 'number 1' so to say.
It culminated at the top two, the first of which, or no.9 if you will, was about the Illuminati really being families of aliens who have been here since before the Great Pyramid. Through interbreeding and such they maintained control over our society throughout the ages and still control us today through the world banks and energy industry.
The number one theory however was pretty wild and was introduced by a professor at Oxford, which I must admit kind of wowed me. His theory is that the Matrix wasn't that far off from what we are living right now. Kind of like being inside an alien playstation I believe he said. His theory was based on the assumption that forty years ago, our computers were the size of a room. Today, a laptop can do what ten rooms worth could do back then. He surmises that aliens would also have super computers and that their technology would allow them to submerge us into this 'virtual reality' world that they have made for us. Reminded me of playing the Sims.
Another theory was that the aliens are able to change 'frequencies' thereby rendering them 'invisible' to us, at least in their true form. To demonstrate he used a few radios. Tuning into a station he would say "okay, listen". He would then tune into another station, noting that even though we didn't hear the first one, it was technically still there, just at another frequency.
All in all, it was an interesting watch. I'm not sure how much I buy into, but I will admit that I believe there are aliens out there, if not actually here right now.
How's that for changing course!?!
Reply #170 Top
How about English-first people (Canadians, Americans, Brits, Ausies, etc) who don't know the difference between two / to / too OR their / there / they're.

There is just no excuse.  
Reply #171 Top
How about English-first people (Canadians, Americans, Brits, Ausies, etc) who don't know the difference between two / to / too OR their / there / they're.


I didn't do this anywhere did I? Please catch me if I did because I hate it myself.
Reply #172 Top
Kind of like being inside an alien playstation I believe he said.


The frak you say! Any chance you noted the person's discipline? My guess is philosophy, or some near relation. For almost twenty years I've been making serious jokes along these lines. Too many "real" stories I know read like some gang of script writers and assistant producers threw it together after a Jolt binge.
Reply #174 Top
I like the theories that our government blew up the towers using demolition explosives. The planes were just a ruse.

And all those English-speaking people who don't know the difference in their to/two/too's, there, they're, their - those ARE the aliens. The different frequencies throw off their speling, you see. (I also suspect people who use the word "frak".)

Reply #175 Top
Grammar Nazis: I don't think they have a proper place on this forum, or on almost any forum. I've never seen a single person suddenly go from inability to write properly to fully educated eloquence because someone corrected them on a forum. If you go about correcting someone's grammar or spelling, you're probably just going to offend them, if anything.

The word Nazi: I don't think we should fear the word. There have been many groups of people who terrorized others in our history, and none of these names should be feared, in my opinion. Understood, remembered? Sure. Feared? Why should they be feared? It's just a name. A title. In our modern society, the word has taken on a new meaning with a different use, but one that partially reflects the idea of a Nazi - someone who condemns others. I actually think the word reflects poorly on those whom it is applied to, but some still choose to wear the title proudly - I assume due to pride in their English knowledge. However, since Nazis were a group of intolerant masochists that saught to destroy those who they deemed inferior, I don't know that being a "grammar Nazi" reflects a spirit of well-intended advice. Certainly the Nazis of Germany weren't giving "helpful advice for self-improvement" to the Jews they shuffled to their death.