Well honestly, if you're really really noob it pisses a lot of people off why?
Because in a 3v3 game a side with a noob is basically WORSE than having the AI. It's like play 2v3 and that's extremely a put-down.
Sometimes people will just give up if they find out they have a total noob (as opposed to semi-noob) on their team because the sharks in this game will eat them alive.
I think the best way for a new player to minimize their noob-ness is play HYPER AGGRESSIVELY. Build 20-30 scouts ASAP and rush the guy next to you with your cap. Don't even think about civic or "sim city" until you taken out or severely hurt the enemy guy next to you.
So many noobs just build up economy b/c of "oh I like to play defensively... by spamming turrets ugh" and then get raped as soon a decent fleet shows up crying for help. At this point I would say "wow what a f*cking noob asshole that basically lost the entire game for us"
Basically go 100% fleet, go 100% rush and don't fucking spam turrets and hanger defenses or non-Vasari Starbases cuz they are useless.
Bascially you might think you're being persecuted but your own incompetence is persecuting all your fellow teammates in bascially wasting their time in a game they have no chance. You can only hope there is someone equally crappy on their team or hope they are all medicore and you have at least 1 incredible player on your team that effectively counts as 2 players.
If anyone went 100% offensive 100% rush 100% fleet but lost because they were a noob, I would still appreciate his effort and initiative. I'd rather have this guy on my team despite being a noob.
However if I have a 100% defense 100% economy (which they don't even know how to maximize anyway) noob I REALLY really hate this. Not only is he a coward but basically he is forcing everyone else to pull his weight in doing something he doesn't know how to do. (This is to FEED the other players who are attacking, a noob just keeps all his income to himself)