some bad news...and some Great News!!

see, its a lil of both...

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my girlfriend has been experiencing some severe pain in her side, and decided to go see her doctor. an x-ray was run, and it was discovered that she had an ovarian cyst, and that it was going to need to be removed. (she's only 19, so that's apparently rare) according to the doctor, it is apparent that she will need a full hysterectomy to solve the problem, and that she will never get to have kids of her own. needless to say, she was devastated.

well, we were talking, and she asked me if i would ever leave her because she couldn't have kids, and i simply pulled a ring out of my pocket and said, "Does this answer your question?"
yea, i know. horribly cheesey, but darn it, it seemed like the right time. so now im engaged. i was planning to ask her around christmas time, since it's her favorite holiday,but outside forces made me do it early. we havent made any arrangements yet for the wedding because of the surgery, but when it's done, and she's recovered, we'll work it out.

so on one hand, my girlf...fiance is in the hospital, on the other hand, she's my fiance!
i dont know whether to be upset or happy. so i guess im hapset.

had to share with you guys, im basically shouting from the rooftops on all my fave sites.
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Reply #1 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Now that is a great expression and example of true love. Best wishes to both of you.   
Reply #2 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Congratulations!
        
If you are near TX and need a minister to tie the knot, let me know.  I'd love to do it.
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Reply #3 from WinCustomize Forums Top
thanks, this should be an interesting few weeks ahead, between work and hospitals... totally worth it
Reply #4 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Congratulations to you both and best wishes for the future
Reply #5 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Congratulations and wishing for a speedy recovery for your fiance.
Reply #6 from WinCustomize Forums Top
need a minister to tie the knot, let me know. I'd love to do it.
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Zubaz is a freaking minister!? I missed that.
Reply #7 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Great example, BuddhaV10!!!
That's an awesome display of commitment and love.

Wish you both all the best for your future, and prayers for your gf.

Reply #8 from WinCustomize Forums Top
well, we were talking, and she asked me if i would ever leave her because she couldn't have kids, and i simply pulled a ring out of my pocket and said, "Does this answer your question?"
yea, i know. horribly cheesey, but darn it, it seemed like the right time. so now im engaged.
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I don't think it's cheesy....when opportunity knocks...better answer it. Quite a good way to go about it, in my opinion (best answer to her question that I could ever think of).

Congrats!
Reply #9 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Ah....marriage is a life sentence.....you only get 20 years for murder....
Reply #10 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Good on you buddhaV10 and congrats on your engagement....all the best to your g/f, too, that it all goes better than expected for her.


Ah....marriage is a life sentence.....you only get 20 years for murder...
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Yep, but at least with the life sentence you don't gotta boyfriend called Bubba.
Reply #11 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Congratulations!
and wishing for a speedy recovery for your fiance, and she is in my prayer's.
Reply #12 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Yep, but at least with the life sentence you don't gotta boyfriend called Bubba.
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Even Bubba is someone's boyfriend...

Reply #13 from WinCustomize Forums Top
congratulations and prayers for a speedy recovery for your fiance.  
Reply #14 from WinCustomize Forums Top
congrats, and my prayers, to both of you.   
Reply #15 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Congrats, BuddhaV10 ...   

Although she was most likely full of fear at that moment ...you did exactly what was needed, so at the same time her heart was probably brimming with love & admiration for you.

Hope she recovers to the best possibilities, and the future for both of you is rosy! 

Reply #16 from WinCustomize Forums Top
All the best to you both. I hope all goes well with the surgery.
Adoption helps couples like you and more importantly it helps kids who'd otherwise have little or no chance in the world.
Reply #17 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Zubaz is a freaking minister!? I missed that.
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It doesn't come up often here. 
Reply #18 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Congrats on your upcoming nuptials   
Reply #19 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Congrats   
Reply #20 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Ah....marriage is a life sentence.....you only get 20 years for murder....
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.... Jafo, you are a comedian, that was too funny!!!

Congrats Buddhav10, all the best to you & your fiance!!!
Reply #21 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Congrats Buddhav10...you rock dude. Life is beautiful again.
Reply #22 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Adoption helps couples like you and more importantly it helps kids who'd otherwise have little or no chance in the world.
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yea, we plan to adopt at least two kids if we can. but we'll probably wait a lil while

thanks to all for the kind words, and prayers
Reply #23 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Congratulations on the wedding announcement and I hope your fiance has a full and speedy recovery so you two guys can get started on your new family.
Reply #24 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Hope the surgery goes well and congratulation.