Well here's the tricky part: if the crusades were just men manipulating the word of god, is it not also feasible for the conflicts in the Old Testament to have been much the same, with a simple case of victors rewriting history as needed?
No, because if you read the OT you'd see clearly it couldn't have been men who wrote it without the inspiration of God. They would have cleaned it up, taking out all the bad stuff in it that made them look bad and foolish. Man's nature is to make himself look good and there's some really stupid foolish things that went on in the OT. Even Moses who wrote the first 5 books couldn't enter the promised land because he disobeyed God and did a foolish thing.
As for choice, it's a pretty awful choice - stick to this route specifically or you suffer forever. That's as much a choice as doing something with a gun pointed to your head. And heaven help you if you disagree or question the morality of certain aspects, because then you're going to suffer forever anyway
So what's your answer? Do whatever you want and still live in harmony with the Creator God forever? Isn't that what we're doing right now on earth? Aren't we sticking to our own game plans? Aren't there many rules out there that we make up on our own? He's letting us live isn't he? If you want to live with me, you play by my rules. My rules are perfect. Look at us now. Aren't we a mess doing things our own way? If you're not living in harmony with God now, why should he allow you into his home then?
Do you let total strangers come into your home regardless of how they treat you and your family? If not, why should God?
When you're in a house and the house is on fire quite often there is only one safe exit right? Wouldn't it make sense to take that exit afforded to you? Why would you instead, try to force yourself to go another way to get out of the burning building when the exit was clearly marked and available for you? What's the point?
What's worse, so many of these paths essentially require that you be inhumane to others until they join you on your path.
many do....I have been involved in these other paths but when you come to Christ it's diff. He was our example. We are to follow him. His example was love. Nowhere will you find him being inhumane to others. In fact, the others were very inhumane to him, including the religionists of his day.
The other child is still a good person, but they have the audacity to question. For this, they suffer forever. Also, the father might send the first kid out to kill the second. Why does god punish us merely for using the natural inquisitiveness he is supposed to have given us?
God doesn't punishing us for being inquisitive. God will punish us for acts of rebellion. It's ok to question God. He says to test him and we have examples of this in scripture. Check out Gideon and the fleece for one thing....book of Judges.
Would god not look at someone who lived exactly as they said they would live, because that's the only way they could live, and see them as better than those who professed to live one way and lived another?
So you're talking about hypocrisy? God hates hypocrites. We can't fool God. He won't be mocked he says. So if we're living one way but professing another, well.....let's just say, God sees it all.
Why does it matter to god if someone likes the same gender? Why does god care if you listen to rock music, or read comics, or listen to the beatles, or play video games, or play dungeons and dragons, or enjoy any other scapegoat for the ills of society?
These are completely diff things. We can like the same gender but God has quite alot to say about having sex with the same gender. To God, that's an abomination. He says nothing about books, music or comics or video games. What he does say is that everything we do, eat, drink, sleep should be done for the glory of God. Some of those things you mentioned might not be giving God glory. Maybe you did them when you were younger but are now convicted. God can still use your knowledge of those things to help others who are in bondage to these things. I read comics all the time when I was a kid. I listened to rock music. I have no problem doing these things now as long as they are not deemed offensive to God or if they could cause a stumbling block to others.
From whence comes gods ability to forgive everything? If the "sin" is directly against god, and it is both realized and apologized for, certainly he would have the right to forgive (or not to). But what about cases where said sin is against another person - such as cheating, theft or other such earthly crimes? God would not be the actual victim in this case, the other person would be. Yet there are many who would feel that as long as the perpretator apologized to god, and not to the slighted individual, they are forgiven, given a clean slate. Does god do this? What about cases where the perpretator realizes much later that what they did was wrong, but for whatever reason they cannot give an apology to the slighted individual? Do they get a chance to apologize after death? Or are they punished for not being mindful of what little time they may have with others? If they get a chance to apologize after death, why doesn't everyone?
Ok, lots of questions in here. I'll try to answer them all.
a. God can forgive everything but unbelief.
b. All sin is against God. So if we cheat, lie or steal, it's against him as well as to the person we're directing it at. When King David sinned by committing adultery and murder he acknowledged his sin was against God. (Psalm 51).
c. We should go to the person and apologize and go to God as well. We should always try to make a wrong a right if we are able. Sometimes we can't and much later; sometimes years later we take it to God. He forgives us. There is no chance after death that I'm aware of. God says that when we go to him for forgiveness and are genuine it's like our sins are thrown into the sea and forgotten. The bible also says first there is death then there is judgment. There's no chance for changing anything after death. The determination of where we spend eternity is made here, while we are still alive. Upon death we either go directly to God or we go to a waiting place called Hades for judgment.
think many people use god as a coping method or a shield to hide behind instead of what "should" be the purpose of god.
I agree. But let me ask you. What is your purpose for being here and what is the purpose of God to you?
So again I ask, why are these people better than those who honestly, earnestly, try to simply do right despite their human limitations? Is god so upset by those who do not want to be judgemental, or those who simply want to do right for as many as they can, that he cannot forgive what any reasonable individual would understand?
It sounds like you wish to make up your own rules to God's game of life. He set up the rules perfectly. All we have to do is follow them. When we follow God and his ways we have a better life. When we don't we get hurt. He knows this. He allows us to burn ourselves by not obeying his rules. But he's always waiting and willing for usto come back to him. What you're asking is that we should be able to stray out of his game plan, make up our own rules and still get receive the prize?