the Min, Max and Close buttons are located on the left tree Window Borders/Title Bar Buttons.
To change the mose over color of the menu list. Open the Miscellaneous folder on the left tree, then clik on the Colors folder, now... on the right tree click on Menus and change the color on Highlighted Text (XP only) This will also change the background of the All Programs button.
To add your Name, email, special notes, etc. Click on Tools (on the top bar) and then Preferences. On the Author tab, you can change or add the skin information.