I can accept that the AI finds me militaristic. I just wish I knew why.
If I colonize, if I don't. If I build warships, if I don't. If I build "defenders", if I don't. If I build constructors, if I don't. If I build starbases, if I don't. If I send them freighters, if I don't. If I give them things, if I don't. If I talk to them, if I don't.
Considering it's always the one negative thing preventing me from allying with the AI, I'd really like to know why it happens, so I can either prevent or cure it.
I honestly can't remember the last game I had where they didn't find me militaristic.
And it's not all of them, either, which strikes me as odd-at least at first; it seems to be contagious after a point.