Quoting InfiniteVengeance,
Yes, it gets boring winning over and over, but that doesn't feel as bad as losing over and over.
I don't feel bad losing most games. The fun is in the challenge, not the outcome.
Yes, we know how YOU feel.
Quoting InfiniteVengeance,
You may not be willing to admit it, but most humans are instinctually programmed to have a good feeling when they succeed at something and a bad feeling when they fail.
Actually I'd say this is learned behavior.
And you'd be wrong.
Quoting InfiniteVengeance,
In some kind of games in life there's only one winner, and everyone else loses! (Uno, for example) Why would anyone play those games if the chances are more likely they will lose than not?!
Uno is a game of chance. People play games of chance for different reasons (i.e., the social interaction). Demigod, in theory at least, is a game of skill, where winning is a function of outplaying your opponents. Yes, you can play Demigod for the social interaction too, but what you can't do is play Uno in order to outplay your opponents.
Quoting InfiniteVengeance,
I think in summary - if you only care about winning, get out.
Your intolerance for other people's ambitions is the biggest reason your argument is failing to persuade as well as you'd probably like. What it is doing is intimidating some people to the point where they are afraid to ever leave a game for fear of being ostricized by the vocal minority like you who refuse to make friends and choose decent people to play with. People who feel compelled to blindly impose their own morality on others.
Here's a pro tip. It's how you can avoid these situations in the future, in just about any game of skill you play:
1. Play a game with randoms
2. Near the end of the game, or after, choose the people who seem to fit your moral code and ask them to play again with you
3. If they agree, put these people in your friends list
4. Keep repeating steps 1-3 until you are no longer playing with people who don't do things the way you'd like them to
5. Each day when you log on to play, seek these people out first and try to organize a game with them
6. If there are not enough of them online, start over at step 1
7. Eventually you'll have a large enough group of friends that you can always control the situation (on both teams) and virtually ensure no one ever does things you don't like again