okay....just tested on xp and back to report....
first off, yes, your font is too dark on the drop down menus, black on virtually black isnt a good choice.....(my eyes were aching after 3 mins of use,from trying to read the menus, black font ect....and im only 33 and dont wear or need glasses)
you group menu item background is also black, and you have black font on that also...so i cant read the menu unless i mouse over....so that has to change also..
menubar font is also black on black.....very hard to read....
..you need to be more user friendly mate......i mean good on you for doing black and red, but she has to be user friendly, otherwise...it wont be approved, obviously the reason why it was rejected in moderation.......
........i hope this helps......