| Omg what file do i need to force to open when i open it i get 4 or 5 text files at the top and then i get like a hundred pictures |
That sounds like the contents of the theme file to me.
If this is a folder containing those text files and pictures, you will need to rename that file by doing the following:
1 - Open My Computer > Tools menu > View tab > deselect the "Hide extensions for known file types" > click Apply.
2 - Go back to the folder containing the text files and folders > right-click the folder > select "Rename" > type (or paste) the following: GridscapeDX.dxtheme > click once in an unoccupied space to deselect the name.
3 - Place this file in "C:\Program Files\Stardock\Object Desktop\DesktopX\Themes" folder.
4 - Start DesktopX > select "Load Desktop" > pick the GridspaceDX item in the list > Apply
That should do it if all is set correctly.
Alternatively, you can re-download the theme, and make sure you do not end up with "GridscapeDX.dxtheme.zip". If so, just remove the ".zip" at the end of the file name, and double-click or place in the folder indicated in #3 above.
Double-clicking will automatically begin applying the desktop theme. 
