I need to ctrl alt delete every 1~4 games.
Some users have indicated issues with stability in the past. You might be best served to post this in the tech support forum or send an email to support@stardock.com. Perhaps double check and ensure you have the latest graphics card drivers. In addition, use impulse to verify your installation (right click on the game in impulse and click verify installation). And as a final measure, uninstall and reinstall the game. In my experience, yes, demigod does have its bugs and can crash from time to time, but I don't experience anything as bad as your 1-4 games or so... that makes me think their might be a problem on your end.
% display, leads to the most horrible game experience for newcomers i've experienced in many games
I agree. But what you need to understand is that you will be best off if you host XvX NOOB ONLY games while you new to the game. That will result in less jerks complaining or kicking you. The sad matter of fact is that if you join an experienced players game, you will likely be on the losing team. It only takes one person feeding to lose the game, even for the best players.
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