Glowing_Ember has hit the exact same issue that I find with the spell.
I was just thinking, even thoug houtposts are squishy, you can't actually destroy someone's outpost unless you are at war with them. Perhaps when the AI is more agressive, those far off outposts by them selves won't last very long.
As for the road issue, I think there was a thread talking about the use of roads through enemy territory, should be disallowed. That would solve the instant road to rome.