hi thier

i know this has probly been posted countless times before but i thought id post again.

me and my roomate dont have the internet and we have been wanting to play multiplaier for a while now. so we pluged in a ethernet cable to eachother and the network wont identify. we are sending and reciving information from each computer but it wont work. then when we do start up the game he cant see any of the games i create but i can see his but it wont allow me to join  it says disconnected from sever.

any help would be greatful. thank you