Thanks, both of you! I will follow up on your suggestions, but first I have a question about this:
Also be aware MP4 cannot connect to MP3 and MP3 cannot connect to MP4. So both ends must be the same major version.
I've confirmed that my steam version is 3.x, which as far as I'm aware is the only version available there. How can I get a free download of MP3 to put on the secondary computer? Everything I found on stardock.com is--understandably--only pushing MP4, but as you said that's a non-starter.