I'm going to go right ahead here and say something defined by this guy as unconstructive.
itsmevic, will you please see reason? You have a response from the Monk that actually refers you to a previous post that you made, to which the Monk responded with decency rarely seen on the interwebs, and which you didn't acknowledge. You then proceed to quadruple-post saying pretty much the same thing, ignoring constructivity (if that's a word) and, indeed, reason, picking out imagined personal faults from the posts of others.
Wouldn't you get annoyed if some guy asked a question, you responded civilly and helpfully, the response appeared to be ignored, and then the guy continues to post about pretty much the same topic in escalating levels of unconstructivity (that word again...), and
then, once you point out this fact, the guy takes a position of apparent moral highground, and completely ignores any reason in your response.
It's very difficult to response constructively to a post that appears to have little point other than to complain. Yet the Monk and Kitkun have managed this (rather admirably, if you ask me) in a much more mature way than you have, and indeed, than I could probably do.
The ultimate answer to your apparent problem is in the very first reply here - if you read the changelog for 1.1 you'll see it's a whole lot easier to host, with no port-forwarding (or whatever it is) required. So I believe they are very much "on the ball". In fact, I rather believe the devs have been doing a fantastic job of maintaining support for their program. Call me a fanboy, but it's true - IC and SD both do the supporting thing very well; there's no point in complaining about a problem that's about to be fixed.
Now, can you please just leave off on the complaining? Regardless of your maturity, this type of criticism and reaction certainly reflects poorly on it. Also, if you respond, could you please do it all in a single post? Five posts in a row slightly detract from the flow of responses, and could quite easily be condensed into an easy-to-read single post (unless my browser is doing something particularly irrational).
Have a wonderful day