Hey again y'all. I'm back with more questions after another multiplayer game. I have made it into entrenchment, finally...Thanks to everyone who has posted suggestions before, but I have another question...
How do you put the last nail in the coffin? I mean I am just failing at finishing somebody off. Usually the situation goes something like this...
I head for the enemy and decide where I want the first fight to happen. (Works out)
Build up a repair bay or two. (Works out)
Beat em with an army, usually of LRM's and flack. Occassionally some Cobalts. (Works out)
Chase down the enemy cap and fleet. (Works out)
By now I'm one jump away from the enemy home world, have colonized whatever planet it is and the enemy usually has 3 planets to my 5-6. Three times now though, I've had this situation and I can't finish em off. I start with an akkan, which helps with colonizing and killing their first cap. Am I at a disadvantage when it comes to taking a homeworld with one?
By all means I could sit there, and build up, but I wanna be able to take em out quick. Like, before 3rd tier TEC military quick. Should I go to tier 3, upgrade and then try to take em out? I have got to be doing something wrong to fail this bad. 
I wonder about other options... Should I culture them out? Should I send in a scout every so often and keep my fleet just above theirs while I go do other things? What say yall?
Also, if any of yall more experienced players have a time you usually get on, and a game you usually play in can yall mention a time? I'd like to see somebody that really knows what they are doing play a game or two. Thanks again, peace.