I'll try and explain (again):
Yes, i know that's my ping with one of them (or two, or all). Because it's a peer2peer game, i may have this high ping only with one of the players, and the rest of them suffer because of this. How do i know this? In some games, in the same situation, one of the other players quit, and then the lag dissapeared. I was also able to play some games with low ping, but it's completely random:
-i join only rooms where the host has <150 ping with me
-the other players are from my region (Europe)
=> it doesn't matter. Sometimes works, sometimes it's a lag fest like in that screenshot.
To recap:
1. I was playing with players from Europe, two of them were right next to my country.
2. My bandwidh: 4Mbit/sec download and 1Mb/s upload, cable connection.
3. No router, no firewall, no sharing, no wireless. I'm the only one who uses it. I'm not downloading anything (DOH!).
4. I've played Crysis, Diablo 2, CS, Unreal Tournament 3, WoW, Quake Live, DOTA and other games online, with people from around the globe, and NEVER had this kind of problem with any game. I always played with maximum 150 ping with people from EU or US.
And pls explain me, why in the game's menu, do i see everyone with good pings (including the host), and then, when in game, the hell breaks loose?