AFAIK the purple heart (wounded in action) is the only medal that doesn't show up in your posts. It is a pity because the purple heart is a pretty medal. It takes a man to admit a defeat as well as showing the perseverance to keep on trying. I've yet to play a DA game, so I really have no good advice for you. Actually, the MVC has really eaten up a *lot* of my time. I have a v1.4 game that I've started and I am damned sure going to finish it, but once that's done I'm not sure whether to do a v1.5 or go right to DA.
As far as getting to the Core, first you need to get registered which usually is a simple matter and only requires an email address. However, some folks get messed up for one reason or other and then it can take a bit to get straightened out.
I know that Evil is registered at the Core however I think one of the admins had to set it up by hand. If that's the case you may not know your own password. It should have been mailed to the email address that you used to set up the account. If there's any issue I'm sure we can get it straightened out. You can always go to the Core and read any public forum. You can also post to the Open Area which you should do if you have any kind of problem registering.
Mistralok is also registered although he's never posted anything so I'm not sure he's totally OK as well. Wheel is the only one not registered although it's clear that he has done a bit of lurking at the Core. It's good that folks know certain aspects of history. I'll be very happy to have some things I've posted be proven wrong.
Anyway, once folks are registered I'll make sure we get your private area set up. By default your emperor (Wheel) would be the moderator of the area. The only other people that could possibly read what's written in your private area are the 6 admins of the Core (I'm a moderator but not an admin so I couldn't even see that your private area existed). It's not their policy to go trolling through other empire's private area's however they *may* do so if there are reasonable suspicion's of rules violations (please read the posted site rules).
The privacy of your area would not be absolute but would be pretty reasonable. If you feel like bashing other folks in your own private area no one would complain or even notice, however serious infractions like displaying pornography would not be tolerated anywhere. In general, bashing other folks in the public areas is not something that is well tolerated either. I'm not suggesting that anyone would do anything like display pornography, I'm just trying to set reasonable expectations on the level of privacy of your private area.
Anyway, if you do decide to take us up on our offer, we will indeed welcome the EoS to the Core.